We often wonder 'how soon is too soon?' after we meet someone...Alright, this 'how soon is too soon?' thing does not relate to sex(ok maybe it does if you want to apply it in that sense). Back to the topic...is there usually a time set for progression of things when it comes to relationship? Sample of a courting sequence:-
1. Meet a person
2. Ask the person out on a date
3. Go out on a date to find out if the other person is interested or simply just to test the water
4. Go out on more dates to find out even more
5. Get a little more intimate, exchange life stories about each other
6. Have sex (note: no. 6 may not usually be in this sequence, if not refer to no.7)
7. Kiss and cuddle
8. Have more sex
9. Move in (note:this may also not happen depending on the seriousness of the relationship or if anyone fucked up)
10. Marriage (note: refer to no.9's note)
Rite! so i merely just made up this cycle of how supposedly a relationship progression would be(say if there's no fucked up)...The question is 'how soon is too soon?' this question normally applies to no.6, to 10...the important parts...i guess it depends on the person really, some people could just skip no.2 to 5 and just go straight into no.6 and for some they need to be doing no.4 for at least 3 months before even moving on to no.5 let alone no.6 and for some people they start off with no.3 then moving along to no.6 and 7 and plunge into no.10 all within 3 months...
So HOW SOON IS TOO SOON..?
6 comments:
too soon?
nah... it could be a night... or even a year... but it takes a lifetime to know someone.... and that's too damn long
Hard to say.. It varies for everyone. Some ppl think that one month is enough but some takes 10 years ~
Depends on if your biological clock has a vote or not.. XD
Like the above said, it could be a night. :)
some only takes a step for some even a million miles could never reach the moon.
all in 1 day! and get divorced the next day! yay tats cool~
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