Of Becoming a Bridezilla

Yes since the cat is already out of the bag..! I might as well put it here...
I am engaged and the wedding is set to be middle next year...

Most you that knows me well must be wondering...OMG What?!! Charmayne getting married..? Is she pregnant?(NO, if i am then the wouldn't even have time for a wedding set next year) Is she crazy?(Yea i am crazy in case you don't know still...) Well whatever it is...I've found the person that i would want to spend the rest of my life with...you know get married, start a family, have some kids, have headaches raising the kids, grow old and etc. (in other words also known as complying to society and to what most called life) Please be happy for me as I AM VERY HAPPY!!!

For the past week, things have been crazy for me, i don't even know why is that but i realize what i'm having may be known as the Bridezilla symptoms. According to wikipedia: Bridezillaportmanteau of bride and Godzilla) is a generic term used to describe a difficult, unpleasant, perfectionist bride who leaves aggravated family, friends and bridal vendors in her wake. A bridezilla is obsessed with her wedding as her perfect day and will disregard the feelings of the family, bridesmaids and even her groom in her quest for the perfect wedding.

Haha funny isn't it? then again i don't see no wrong for having like one of the most important day of my life to be perfect and fairytale like...i don't think there's a lot of gals out there who would want their weddings to be a total nightmare with lots of not so pretty things for people to talk about...i mean seriously, people will naturally bitch...don't believe me? let me set a few examples here...

Typical Chinese 10 course sit down dinner: Warao got karaoke one...somemore that 'tai kam jei'(usually an aunty with lots to talk about and MC of the wedding) was talking so much rubbish, don't even understand why she can't shut up.
So called Beach/Poolside Wedding at quite a famous hotel in Mines: Eeeyer...the sand was not even proper, there's lot of ants and it ruined my shoes and i swear there's like a stench in the air...
Buffet style: WAH the food is so bad...so cheapo one this couple, cannot even spend a bit more on nicer food..!

these are just a few scenarios and it goes on and on...Now you see what i mean? People talk...and of course i want my wedding to be perfect and if people want to talk, it better be WOW it's the best wedding i've ever been to...it's so pretty and i wish my wedding is like that....See that's more like it! :) Can you tell me who doesn't want a perfect wedding?

It's hard enough trying to decide a location and to also have a reasonable budget...Arghhh...no wonder i'm going crazy..!

Ok that's it...i might elope or just have a wonderful smallish wedding here...


Gem Island



Nice right? and i'm sure if you really a close and true friend you woulnd't mind attending this wedding of mine even though it might be slightly out of the way :)